I've noticed with both of these forums (because they're both "darkbb.com" hosted forums) that I've been logged out when I didn't logout, and the passwords get rejected once or twice when I'm certain I have the correct one. Eventually, it worked out just by re-entering it.
I think I might have had to change my password once on one of these forums - I can't remember which. But they sent me an email with instructions and a link to reset the password. If you gave them your correct email, this should work. If you have to set up a new account, type carefully and remember the details.
There are trouble-makers who have deservedly been banned from the board. I am certain you are not one of them, Jess.
In any case, you're always welcome here!
Password hint-a-billy